Where does time fly to? Living in Hangzhou and raising our son just the two of us has its challenges, not the least of which is the family bonds we long for, and try to foster with Skype calls and Facebook messages, a far cry from a grandmother’s hug and an auntie’s scolding. For our son, his family, although quite large if you count all the relatives in Barbados, the US and Guyana, is reduced to visits every other year from Lester’s mom (we love you Janette Paul), and a blurry computer screen image of my family.
It’s really just us witnessing him transform. So Skype, Facebook, Google Plus and this website are so much more for us that just highly technical forms of communication. They help to build a crucial bridge of support for our family ties. I grew up in a huge family, with my aunts, uncles, grandparents and cousins on both sides filling my life. For Alemayehu, Lester and I are basically his whole world. He has already lived in 4 apartments and traveled to about 9 counties so we think stability and ritual are important; and family. We hope everything his is able to experience makes up for the fact that an extended family is just an abstract concept to him.
To all my friends and family reading this, I know I have not been the best at keeping in touch, but I love you all. This blog post is for you, just as much as it is for Alemayehu, to show how proud we are of all he has achieved last year. He started piano classes (will add a video clip of his first recital soon) as well as Tiquando classes. He is in his last year of kindergarten, as Chinese students don’t start primary school until 6 or 7 years old. We spent a much more upbeat Christmas holiday last year, and had a really restful Chinese New Year. There are also some more pictures of his 5th year birthday party, and his closest friends. He recently started to write to his friend Natasha who lives in the Ukraine and spent last year in China. Hope you enjoy the pictures and this quick recap!